~*~A.A. Thoughts For The Day~*~
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Principles
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"Experience shows that few alcoholics
will long stay away from a group
just because they don't like the way it
is run.
Most return and adjust themselves
to whatever conditions they must.
Some go to a different group, or form a
new one.
In other words, once an alcoholic fully
realizes
that he cannot get well alone,
he will somehow find a way to get well
and stay well
in the company of others."
Bill
W., Letter, 1943
c.1967AAWS, As Bill Sees It, p.
312
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Thought to Consider . . .
It isn't difficult to make a mountain
out of a molehill
- just add a little dirt.
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H A L T = Honestly, Actively, Lovingly, Tolerant.
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Balance
Step Ten: Continued to
take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.
"We A.A.�s
find we need something much better in order to keep our balance. We can�t
stand it if we hate deeply. The idea that we can be possessively loving of a
few, can ignore the many, and can continue to fear or hate anybody, has to
be abandoned, if only a little at a time."
� 1952, AAWS, Inc.; Printed
2005; Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, pgs. 92-93
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LIVE AND LET LIVE
Never since
it began has Alcoholics Anonymous been divided by a major controversial issue.
Nor has our Fellowship ever publicly taken sides on any question in an
embattled world. This, however, has been no earned virtue. It could almost be
said that we were born with it. . . . "So long as we don't argue
these matters privately, it's a cinch we never shall publicly.
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TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 176
Do I remember
that I have a right to my opinion but that others don't have to share it?
That's the spirit of "Live and Let Live." The Serenity Prayer
reminds me, with God's help, to "Accept the things I cannot
change." Am I still trying to change others? When it comes to
"Courage to change the things I can," do I remember that my opinions
are mine, and yours are yours? Am I still afraid to be me? When it
comes to "Wisdom to know the difference," do I remember that my
opinions come from my experience? If I have a know-it-all attitude, aren't I
being deliberately controversial?
�Copyright 1990 ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS
WORLD SERVICES, INC.�
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Loving Advisers
Had I not been
blessed with wise and loving advisers, I might have cracked up long ago. A
doctor once saved me from death by alcoholism because he obliged me to face up to
the deadliness of that malady. Another doctor, a psychiatrist, later on helped
me save my sanity because he led me to ferret out some of my deep-lying
defects. From a clergyman I acquired the truthful principles by which we A.A.'s now try to live.
But these precious friends did far more
than supply me with their professional skills. I learned that I could go to
them with any problem whatever. Their wisdom and their integrity were mine for
the asking.
Many of my dearest A.A. friends have
stood with me in exactly this same relation. Oftentimes they could help where
others could not, simply because they were A.A.'s.
GRAPEVINE, AUGUST 1961
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"The fact
is that most alcoholics, for reasons yet obscure, have lost
the power of choice in drink. Our
so-called will power becomes
practically nonexistent. We are unable,
at certain times, to bring
into our consciousness with sufficient
force the memory of the
suffering and humiliation of even a
week or a month ago. We are
without defense against the first
drink."
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition,
There Is A Solution, pg. 24~
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A.A. Thought for the Day
I have
real friends where I had none before. My drinking companions could hardly be called
my real friends, though when drunk we seemed to have the closest kind of
friendship. My idea of friendship has changed. Friends are no longer people
whom I can use for my own pleasure or profit. Friends are now people who
understand me and I them, whom I can help and who can help me to live a better
life. I have learned not to hold back and wait for friends to come to me, but
to go halfway and to be met halfway, openly and freely. Does friendship have a
new meaning for me?
Meditation for
the Day
There is a time for everything. We
should learn to wait patiently until the right time comes. Easy does it. We
waste our energies in trying to get things before we are ready to have them,
before we have earned the right to receive them. A great lesson we have to
learn is how to wait with patience. We can believe that all our life is a
preparation for something better to come when we have earned the right to it.
We can believe that God has a plan for our lives and that this plan will work
out in the fullness of time.
Prayer for the
Day
I pray that I may learn the lesson of
waiting patiently I pray that I may not expect things until I have earned the
right to have them.