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Fellowship
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"We were still trying to find emotional security
by being dominating or dependent upon others.
Even when our fortunes had not ebbed that much
and we nevertheless found ourselves alone in the world,
we still vainly tried to be secure by some unhealthy
kind of domination or dependence.
For those of us who were like that,
AA had a very special meaning.
Through it we begin to learn right relations
with people who understand us;
we don't have to be alone any more."
Â©1952AAWS, Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, pp. 116-17
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Thought to Consider . . .

Who we are is God's gift to us.
Who we become is our gift to God.

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Y A N A = You Are Not Alone.

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Egotism

Step Seven: Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings

"We could actually have earnest religious beliefs which remained barren because we were still trying to play God ourselves. As long as we placed self-reliance first, a genuine reliance upon a Higher Power was out of the question. That basic ingredient of all humility, a desire to seek and do God’s will, was missing."

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FALSE PRIDE

Many of us who had thought ourselves religious awoke to the limitations of this attitude. Refusing to place God first, we had deprived ourselves of His help.

TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p.75

Many false notions operate in false pride. The need for direction to live a decent life is satisfied by the hope experienced in the A.A. Fellowship. Those who have walked the way for years - a day at a time - say that a God-centered life has limitless possibilities for personal growth. This being so, much hope is transmitted by the elder A.A.s.

I thank my Higher Power for letting me know that He works through other people, and I thank Him for our trusted servants in the Fellowship who aid new members to reject their false ideals and to adopt those which lead to a life of compassion and trust. The elders in A.A. challenge the newcomers to "Come To" - so that they can "Come to Believe." I ask my Higher Power to help my unbelief.
Â©Copyright 1990 ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS WORLD SERVICES, INC.Â©
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Arrogance and It's Opposite

A very tough-minded prospect was taken to his first A.A. meeting, where two
speakers (or maybe lecturers) themed their talks on "God as I understand
Him." Their attitude oozed arrogance. In fact, the final speaker got far
overboard on his personal theological convictions. Both were repeating my
performance of years before. Implicit in everything they said was the same
idea: "Folks, listen to us. We have the only true brand of A.A. - and you'd
better get it!" The new prospect said he'd had it -- and he had. His sponsor
protested that this wasn't real A.A. But it was too late, nobody could touch
him after that.
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I see "humility for today" as a safe and secure stance midway between violent emotional extremes. It is a quiet place where I can keep enough perspective and enough balance to take my next small step up the clearly marked road that points toward eternal values.

GRAPEVINE 1. APRIL 1961 - 2. JUNE 1961

Somehow, being alone with God doesn't seem as embarrassing as facing up to another person. Until we actually sit down and talk aloud about what we have so long hidden, our willingness to clean house is still largely theoretical. When we are honest with another person, it confirms that we have been honest with ourselves and with God.

12x12, p. 60
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"Sometimes we hear an alcoholic say that the only thing he needs to
do is to keep sober. Certainly he must keep sober, for there will be
no home if he doesn't. But he is yet a long way from making good to
the wife or parents whom for years he has so shockingly treated."

Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, Into Action, pg. 82

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A.A. Thought for the Day

Two things can spoil group unity -- gossip and criticism. To avoid these
divisive things, we must realize that we're all in the same boat. We're like
a group of people in a lifeboat after the steamer has sunk. If we're going to
be saved, we've got to pull together. It’s a matter of life or death for us.
Gossip and criticism are sure ways of disrupting any A.A. group. We're all in
A.A. to keep sober ourselves and to help each other to keep sober. And
neither gossip nor criticism helps anyone to stay sober. Am I often guilty of
gossip or criticism?

Meditation for the Day

We should try to be grateful for all the blessings we have received and which
we do not deserve. Gratitude to God for all His blessings will make us
humble. Remember that we could do little by ourselves, and now we must rely largely on God's grace in 'helping ourselves and others. People do not care much for those who are smug and self-satisfied or those who gossip and
criticize. But people are impressed by true humility. So we should try to
walk humbly at all times. Gratitude to God and true humility is what makes us effective.

Prayer for the Day

I pray that I may walk humbly with God.

I pray that I may rely on His grace to carry me.